Loving him....with Christ.

I love him..my husband.and its as simple as that... sometimes its an effort when i feel he disowns me and takes no effort to love me...and thats another issue and lets leave it at that.Even as i have been writing about how uncaring he becomes...there are times when he can actually make me feel so special and i geuss its only investment he needs to make to get an all covered love insurance from me :)

women are sometimes so naive, all they need is a bit of admiration , a loving word or two, a spontaneous moment of fun or laughter or just a listening ear, a bit of help when she feels overwhelmde...i guess all women long from deep within to just belong to that one man of her dreams .to be thought of as a special someone no one can replace. and i wish men would just make their women feel that way , the only real investment they have to make in life, and such simple things would go a far way in maintaining the tone and stability of marriage .because essentially it makes her secure,and security roots a woman, just like love blooms her in the family.

Men can be tough cookies to crack...pulling on layers and walls and an odd detachment.essentially women need not go cracking this cookie and getting herself all worked up.remember that you're not there alone, there is this third person in every christian marriage who can actually make way through oceans,who can control storms and for who nothing is impossible.

So my dear ladies, my beloved young wives who struggle under a yoke of a hard marriage, cast your burdens unto jesus, and lol he cares for you.isnt that the most extraordinary thing, we who have much power in christ fall apart helpless. when you are tired of yelling yammering crying and crying ....kneel down.And let him help you out, take control of things you cant do anything, like his attitude , or his detatchment or anything you are struggling with. coz he can heal, he can transform and he can make things new.:) how great is that!!!